kaerfamai asked: Why is it always the black women who have the problems though? If I wanna wear my hair in a perm then I'm going to. If you wanna go natural, more power to you. Since when is that self hating? You don't see people going around chastising white girls when they go out and tan. Having permed hair has nothing to do with "succumbing to whiteness." I never said I hated my hair. When it comes down to it, it's all about preference, and that's something you can't police. -____-
